Is Being Alone Really a Curse? Embracing Solitude in a Society Obsessed with Marriage

As I approach the age of 40, the question I face most frequently is, “Are you not getting married?” followed closely by, “What is the reason?” The truth is, I realized some time ago that the traditional concept of marriage did not align with my life circumstances. So, I didn’t marry. If you ask me … Read more

The Empty House: The Balance Sheet of a Divorce

I. The Husband’s Lament: A Life on Hold Sumesh grew up in a home defined by warmth. Watching his parents, he believed marriage was a sanctuary of mutual respect. When he met Revathi, he saw the reflection of that dream. But shortly after the wedding, the mirror shattered. Every word became a spark; every action, … Read more

Melting interiors: Family debt, the silent killer

The Wake-Up Call I woke up to the sound of my phone ringing at an ungodly hour. “Who is calling this early?” I wondered. It was a friend. “What happened?” I asked, sensing the urgency. “Someone close to us has committed suicide,” he replied, his voice heavy. “Why?” “I don’t know. There is a letter … Read more

Mental health and men: Suicide rates are rising

June is recognized as Men’s Mental Health Month. The primary aim is to enhance awareness regarding men’s mental wellness. Men often overlook their mental well-being. While they may initially appear free of major concerns, these can escalate into serious issues. Men’s mental health experiences various phases, ultimately leading some to contemplate suicide. A significant number … Read more

The Mental Challenge In The Digital Age(Fear of Missing Out)

‘FOMO’ or ‘Fear of Missing Out’ is the anxiety that arises from the concern of missing something significant if you take a break from the digital realm, a prevalent mental state in today’s society. This experience is particularly evident among those who frequently engage with social media platforms. The Fear of Missing Out stems from … Read more

News Overload: Balancing Information Needs And Mental Health

The globe operates on the foundation of information technology, and news forms a crucial component of it. News plays a vital role in helping us grasp what is transpiring in our surroundings. Through news, we can access various  types of  information, including government notifications, developmental initiatives, examination updates, employment opportunities, social  security pensions, stock trends, … Read more

The Great Kerala Marriage Debate: Why Modern Women Are Saying ‘No’

The Question Haunting Every Indian Household Why are today’s women and girls hesitant to marry? Even with intense pressure from parents and relatives, many are unwilling to commit. The common questions floating around are: Is it because of feminism? Is it their financial independence? Do they simply no longer need the help of men? The reality is complex, but the … Read more

Civic Awareness: The Mirror of a Modern Society

Every individual is part of a community, which necessitates adherence to fundamental values and conduct. This concept is known as Civic Awareness (or Pourabodham). Civic awareness reflects the ethics of a contemporary community. Humans are inherently social beings; no one can thrive or meet all their needs in isolation without support from others. When we … Read more