Is Being Alone Really a Curse? Embracing Solitude in a Society Obsessed with Marriage

As I approach the age of 40, the question I face most frequently is, “Are you not getting married?” followed closely by, “What is the reason?” The truth is, I realized some time ago that the traditional concept of marriage did not align with my life circumstances. So, I didn’t marry. If you ask me … Read more

Cry Openly; It’s Good For Your Mind And Body.

Let It Out: The Hidden Strength and Healing Power of Tears Crying is one of the most fundamental emotional expressions of a human being. We are all born crying. There isn’t a single person on earth who hasn’t shed a tear; no matter how brave someone is, they have likely cried not just once, but … Read more

The Empty House: The Balance Sheet of a Divorce

I. The Husband’s Lament: A Life on Hold Sumesh grew up in a home defined by warmth. Watching his parents, he believed marriage was a sanctuary of mutual respect. When he met Revathi, he saw the reflection of that dream. But shortly after the wedding, the mirror shattered. Every word became a spark; every action, … Read more

Melting interiors: Family debt, the silent killer

The Wake-Up Call I woke up to the sound of my phone ringing at an ungodly hour. “Who is calling this early?” I wondered. It was a friend. “What happened?” I asked, sensing the urgency. “Someone close to us has committed suicide,” he replied, his voice heavy. “Why?” “I don’t know. There is a letter … Read more

Mental health and men: Suicide rates are rising

June is recognized as Men’s Mental Health Month. The primary aim is to enhance awareness regarding men’s mental wellness. Men often overlook their mental well-being. While they may initially appear free of major concerns, these can escalate into serious issues. Men’s mental health experiences various phases, ultimately leading some to contemplate suicide. A significant number … Read more

Social media: truth and myth

Many individuals believe that solely my perceptions are valid. However, is everything we observe and perceive genuine? How often do people verify its accuracy? We communicate with others in diverse ways, often without confirming what we hear or see. In earlier times, information spread through oral traditions, but today it quickly circulates via social media. … Read more

The Mental Challenge In The Digital Age(Fear of Missing Out)

‘FOMO’ or ‘Fear of Missing Out’ is the anxiety that arises from the concern of missing something significant if you take a break from the digital realm, a prevalent mental state in today’s society. This experience is particularly evident among those who frequently engage with social media platforms. The Fear of Missing Out stems from … Read more

A trek above the clouds of Meesapulimala

Standing at 8,661 feet, Meesapulimala is the second-highest peak in the Western Ghats and the highest trekking point in Kerala (after Anamudi). Located just 25 km from Munnar, this UNESCO World Heritage site became a cultural sensation following the 2015 film Charlie, where Dulquer Salmaan famously asked, “Have you seen snow falling on Meesapulimala?” Beyond … Read more